A self-confessed ‘sugar mama’ has fans on TikTok begging her for a job after revealing she spoils her boy-toy lover with luxury vacations and gifts.
Julie, 44, a widow from the US, met her partner Zach, 29, on the dating app Bumble a year ago, and their unusual arrangement involves her treating him to the finer things in life — as long as he does whatever she wants.
This year alone she has spent a total of $30,000 on trips with him, including getaways to Cabo, Florida, and Niagara Falls. They also have two more holidays booked, which will cost another $10,000.
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Boy toy: Self-confessed ‘sugar mama’ Julie, 44, from the US, met her partner Zach, 29, on the dating app Bumble a year ago
Stipulation: The widow said she treats her beau to the finer things in life, as long as he does whatever she wants
Love language: Julie likes to spoil Zach with lavish vacations, and this year alone she has spent a total of $30,000 on trips with him, including getaways to Cabo, Florida, and Niagara Falls
The content creator, who earns between $30 to $40,000 a month, has posted playful videos about their relationship on her @Julie.Withthebooty TikTok account, where she has more than 65,000 followers.
Julie recently went viral after answering some of the most popular questions she gets asked as a sugar mama, confirming that she buys Zach ‘anything he wants.’
But when asked what he does in return, she responded: ‘Anything I want.’ She also claimed she gives Zach an allowance, but later revealed she was joking.
‘It’s $15,000 a month right now,’ she alleged. ‘I lowered it because last month he forgot to clean the pool.’
Inquiring minds: Julie recently went viral after answering some of the most popular questions she gets asked as a sugar mama on TikTok
Tit for tat: Julie confirmed that she buys Zach ‘anything he wants,’ but when asked what he does in return, she responded: ‘Anything I want’
Sign me up: Commenters were begging to become Julie’s sugar baby after finding out she gives Zach a $15,000-per-month allowance, but she later claimed she was joking
Julie’s followers were quick to comment on the controversial post, which has been viewed more than 3.5 million times and had some desperate to find themselves a sugar mama.
‘Can someone post where to go to sign up for this cause like I have a resume ready,’ one person wrote, while another asked: ‘Where can I find one?’
‘Wonder how many people Google how to find a sugar mama after watching this,’ someone else joked.
One TikToker even offered up his services, writing: ’15k??? Madam I am 31 and gay but by thunder I would be willing to make an attempt.’
Claim to fame: Julie earns between $30 to $40,000 a month as a content creator
One to watch: She has 463,000 followers on Instagram and more than 65,000 on TikTok
Drawing the line: Julie insisted she doesn’t give Zach an allowance, but she does ‘spoil’ him
Speaking of the reaction to her video, Julie told Jam Press that ‘most of the comments have been, “Can you by sugar mama” or “I’ll fight him for that spot.”
‘But there’s always a few super rude comments too. I’m surprised people don’t see that it was a TikTok trend joke.’
In reality, Julie insisted she doesn’t actually pay Zach an allowance, but her partner still does things like cooking for her and brushing her hair.
‘Although I am a cougar, and I do make $30-40,000 a month, I definitely don’t give him an allowance,’ she said. ‘[But] I absolutely do spoil him.
Finding love: The mother of two, who has an 18-year-old and a 21-year-old, found love with Zach after her husband died
Looking back: She explained that when she finally stated dating after her husband’s death, she realized she had ‘more in common with younger men’
If you can’t beat ’em… Julie also noticed that men her age tended to date younger women
‘We travel a lot, and I pay for that. And I like to buy him gifts — that’s my love language. I spoil my kids that way also.
‘[The most expensive things I have bought him are] probably the vacations we go on — we are always jetting around somewhere.’
Julie said they’ve been on about 10 trips so far, and in a few weeks they are headed to Exuma Bahamas and then Costa Rica right after that.
‘Costa Rice will be the most expensive so far — about $10,000,’ she said.
Love: Julie gushed that Zach is ‘very sweet and nurturing,’ saying ‘he does most of the cooking’
Travel partners: Julie said they’ve been on about 10 trips so far, and in a few weeks they’re going to Exuma Bahamas and then Costa Rica right after that, which will cost another $10,000
Living single: Julie said she doesn’t have any plans to remarry, despite their connection
The mother of two, who has an 18-year-old and a 21-year-old, found love with Zach after her husband died.
‘When I eventually started dating again, I found that I had more in common with younger men and that men my age are typically dating younger women,’ she explained.
‘He’s very sweet and nurturing,’ she said of Zach. ‘He does most of the cooking and makes me the most delicious meals.
‘He pampers me too. He brushes my hair every night before bed, and rubs me until I fall asleep.’
Despite the pair’s sweet connection, Julie has no plans to re-marry.