A transgender man claims women should date trans men because they ‘know how the vagina works’ – leaving blokes threatened as he can ‘take their girlfriends off them whenever he wants’.
In a series of TikTok videos, Demitri Rodriguez claims that women who have been to bed with him vow to nly date trans men from ten on, and also says that trans men have better fashion sense and are unlikely to abandon a woman after having a baby.
The 22-year-old, from Stratford-upon-Avon, Warwickshire, has since been bombarded with flirty messages from hundreds of female admirers swayed by his case, demanding to know how they can get a date with the smooth talker.
He believes women have always been more accepting of trans men and claims men feel threatened by him because they know he ‘could turn around and take their girlfriend off them if he wanted to’.
Demitri has been hailed as a ‘win-win’ by female commenters who insisted trans men are ‘more loyal’ and that cisgender men – men who identify with the sex they were born – ‘didn’t stand a chance’ against him.
Demitri Rodriguez, 22, from from Stratford-upon-Avon, went viral on TikTok with a video showing women why they should be dating trans men like him, pictured
The recruitment resourcer, who came out publicly at age 18, also said that trans men are better options because they didn’t grow up with a ‘f*** boy mentality’ and don’t objectify women like other men.
He believes trans men have many attributes that make them more desirable over cisgender men, and even went as far as to say that men have a ‘disadvantage’ because they weren’t born with a vagina.
Demitri said: ‘We know how the vagina works. The amount of female friends I’ve had who have told me they’ve had s*** sex because lads don’t know how to find the clitoris.
‘I was born with one, so at least I know. I’ve slept with girls before who’ve said they wouldn’t date anybody other than a trans man from that point on. They say sex just isn’t the same.
The trans man, pictured, said he could steal the girlfriend of any men thanks to his empathy, fashion sense and bedroom skills, as he explains he knows what being a woman feels like
The TikToker, pictured, said trans men ae not born with what he calls a ‘f*** boy mentality’ and won’t objectify women like some cis men do
‘Trans men have had a vagina, or they might still have one if they haven’t had the surgery. It does put men at a disadvantage compared to us.
‘I also think it’s a universal truth that trans men dress better. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a trans man who dressed like dog s***, to be honest.
‘I think we’re better for fashion advice too. Most lads don’t know anything about make-up unless they’re gay.
‘Trans men wouldn’t leave women after a baby because the IVF process is such a big thing. Trans men often have their eggs frozen before transitioning.
‘It’s not like how it is with some guys who put their d*** in a girl and get her pregnant.
In the video, which has gone viral, Demitri said trans men had a better mentality than some other men, and are more loyal, right
The social media personality, pictured, who came out as trans at 18, said he keeps a stash of period pads in his house in case a girl comes over and needs one
‘I also think trans men are more empathetic about periods. A lot of guys get weirded out about it, and when it comes down to the nitty-gritty of it, they’ll get like “What the f***”.
‘I always keep sanitary towels at my house in case a girl comes over and needs them for whatever reason. I think more lads should do that. It just makes a girl feel more at ease.
‘I can see both sides of it and that’s why I think I have a lot of people coming to me for relationship advice. I can see a girl’s side of it and a man’s too.’
Demitri made the case for dating trans men in a TikTok video which has gone on to receive hundreds of comments from besotted viewers.
Demitri said: ‘I put the video out because I’ve heard a lot from my trans mates that women won’t date them because of body parts and what-not.
Demitri, pictured on his birthday, said he put the video on TikTok after several of his friends told him women won’t date trans men because of their body parts
In the clip, Demitri boasted that trans men know how to dress well, left, and understand periods and won’t be put off by them, right
‘And because I’m so open about myself, I thought I would give people something to talk about.
‘I wasn’t expecting the video to get as much attention as it did. I also wasn’t expecting women to be contacting me saying they wanted to go on dates with me. That was a little bit of a shock.
‘I had to turn off my notifications as my TikTok inbox was full. I had like over 99 message requests. I’m not used to attention, I’ve been single for three-and-a-half years.
‘I’m really surprised there weren’t any hate comments on the video. Initially, I was going to take it down but I’m glad I didn’t now.
‘It even got to the point where my brother told me that one of the girls at his uni had seen the video and thought I was fit.
The TikToker, pictured, cheekily added that trans men could perform better in the bedroom, because they know the female anatomy
‘There were a lot of older women commenting. I got a message from a woman who was old enough to be my mum.
‘It was a bit overwhelming. I’ve had attention from girls before, but not on that level. It came as a massive shock.
‘I didn’t realise that many people wanted to date a trans man. I even had some comments saying “You’ve changed my opinion” and “I think I’d rather date a trans man over a cis man”.
‘There’s two girls who’ve reached out that have caught my eye.’
He says that he has generally found women to be more open to his gender, whilst other men can get intimidated.
Demitri said: ‘In real life, my experiences have been pretty split. A lot of women do gravitate towards trans men because they want to experiment.
‘I’ve only ever had one girl say she wouldn’t date me because of what I have in my pants. To be fair, I don’t blame her as we all have preferences.
People agreed with Demitri, and some said dating a trans man is a ‘win-win’ and that other cis men don’t stand a chance when compared with trans men
‘Girls are always way more accepting of trans people than boys anyway. I don’t know if it’s because they feel a bit threatened – I’ve got better facial hair than most blokes my age.
‘I think they feel threatened by the fact that I could turn around and take their girlfriend off them if I wanted to.
‘I think trans men tend to be more empathetic because we were once a woman. My trans mates will have partners turn to them and say “You’re more empathetic than other guys”.
‘I know what girls go through. I was catcalled when I was female. Certain lads are raised with a certain mentality, where they think it’s acceptable to pinch a girl’s a*** in a nightclub.
‘I wouldn’t do that – because I know it feels. I know how a girl feels.’
In the TikTok video, which has received more than 50,000 views, Demitri listed several reasons why trans men would be more appealing partners.
The video shows Demitri dancing along to music, as reasons appear on screen to try and persuade female viewers.
The captions read: ‘The reasons why you should date a trans man:
‘We understand how girls think and feel as we used to be one.
Demitri, pictured, added that starting a family is not an easy process for trans men, which makes it less likely to leave once they have a child with someone
‘We know how to treat you properly as we have the biggest loyalist hearts.
‘We tend to be better in the bedroom as we know the vagina [Cat emoji] works as we was born with one.
‘We know how to dress and will tell you what looks good on you and how you should have your hair and makeup.
‘We wouldn’t leave you once starting a family as having children isn’t the easiest process.
‘We wasn’t born with f*** boy mentality.
‘Overall we know what you go through on a monthly basis and won’t be disgusted if you came on the time of the month whilst around us.’
Commenters wholly agreed with Demitri’s points and flooded his comments with date requests and compliments.
One user commented: ‘Trans men > Cis men.’
Cara Toni commented: ‘I would definitely date a trans guy, so much nicer and loyal than most other guys.’
Michelle Rowley commented: ‘TikTok has definitely made me change my preference, transmen all the way.’
Lauren Gavin commented: ‘And it means I can come off the pill, I see this as a win-win.’
Corrie Bray commented: ‘I’ve never heard something so real, at least trans understand a woman’s feelings!’
Melissa Taylor commented: ‘It’s almost not fair on the cis boys, they don’t stand a chance against you.’