In case there was ever any question about it, Niecy Nash is happily living and loving her life with her “hersband,” Jessica Betts. During an appearance on Red Table Talk on March 31, Niecy joined Jada Pinkett Smith, Adrienne Banfield-Norris, and Willow Smith to set the record straight about her relationship, including how her children felt about meeting Jessica for the first time and why Niecy doesn’t feel the need for labels. Halfway through the chat, Jessica joined the group at the infamous Red Table to discuss how the pair fell in love and just who made the first move. Spoiler alert: it wasn’t Jessica. Ahead we’ve broken down some of the biggest things we learned about the couple that broke the internet.